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October 26, 2026

social media’s impact on children questioned

The debate over the causes of declining mental health among teenagers continues, as a new book by psychology researcher Peter Gray argues that the rigid modern schooling system, not social media and smartphones, is to blame. Gray’s book, Restoring Childhood, counters the arguments presented by social psychologist Jonathan Haidt in his bestseller The Anxious Generation, which attributes the decline in teen mental health since 2010 to increased social media and smartphone use.

Redefining the Source of Stress

Gray states that the reduction in teenage autonomy over decades, coupled with the demanding schooling methods imposed by the Common Core curriculum, has played a significant role in the downturn of their mental health. He suggests that while social media has been criticised, it actually helped improve teen mental health when it became widespread in the 1990s and 2000s by providing a medium for freedom and connection.

Gray Challenges Conventional Beliefs

Gray’s perspective contrasts sharply with Haidt’s, as he contends that schools, not social media, are the primary sources of stress and anxiety for teenagers. He argues that numerous studies have failed to establish a strong correlation between social media usage and negative mental health outcomes, noting that in some cases, teens may use social media as a coping mechanism for existing anxiety or depression.

Potential Impact on Policy and Public Perception

Haidt’s research has significantly influenced policy, contributing to Australia’s nationwide teen social media ban and encouraging similar considerations in the UK and EU. Meanwhile, in the United States, states such as California and New York are also implementing limits on social media features for minors.

Reflections on Past Moral Panics

Gray draws parallels between current concerns over social media’s impact on youth and past moral panics, such as fears that violent video games were linked to increased aggression among children in the late 1990s and 2000s. Although regulatory efforts were largely overturned, the eventual scientific consensus was that video games did not cause the anticipated harm. Gray remains hopeful that a science-based understanding will prevail regarding social media as well.

Rethinking Restrictions on Social Media

While Gray acknowledges that protective measures like school phone bans and age verification for accessing adult content have their place, he opposes blanket restrictions on social media. He emphasises the importance of educating children on navigating the digital world, asserting that they are capable of understanding their needs with appropriate guidance rather than treating them as incapable of judgement.

Gray and Haidt, who once collaborated on the Let Grow initiative to promote children’s independence, now stand on opposing sides of this critical debate, each advocating for their respective interpretations of the available data. As discussions unfold, the debate over the true impact of social media on youth mental health remains a pressing issue for both lawmakers and parents.

Reporting based on coverage first published by theverge.com.